Buying From the Divorced

Buying a home is stressful enough, and no transaction is exempt from its challenges, but buying from a couple that is divorcing certainly can present challenges. While these homes tend to get listed quickly and are looking to sell quickly, emotions are high, and things are said in the process that is hurtful between the husband and wife. Unfortunately, that carries over into the sale of the home, and can make things harder on the buyer.


When tension is high, there can be miscommunication between the agent and the couple. This can be frustrating for the agent in that they have a certain timeline they need to follow as well. No one gets paid until the loan closes, so everyone is waiting on pins and needles while trying to ensure that it has been a smooth transaction. The transaction can only go as smooth as what the sellers allow, and when miscommunication is a problem, everything else can go awry as well.

None of us are exempt from getting a divorce, and none of us are perfect, this is merely a warning to those who are looking to buy. There can be challenges with any purchase transaction when buying a home, and it all comes down to being prepared to wait if necessary, or being prepared to move quickly if given the chance. Remember that it is important to be considerate of the seller’s emotions as well, and by doing your part it can make as the buyer it will make things smoother for everyone involved.

-Mayer Dallal